Friday, May 1, 2009

Kitchen Aesthetic

My mom's kitchen was the place where everyone wanted to be. Even when a washing machine and dryer sat right across from the old gas stove and a company meal meant canned black olives in the spaghetti, her kitchen was a charmed place. There might be homemade bread. There might be home-canned peaches. There might even be lemon pie. You were guaranteed two things about the meal on the old green table: it would be good, and it would be plentiful.

Mom came by this naturally. Dad still recounts with a certain awe the first time he saw Grandma Gladys spread out a gigantic batch of warm cinnamon rolls on the kitchen table and tell everyone to eat up. I still consider with a similar awe how many people--family, friend and stranger--that both Grandma and Mom fed on a very limited budget. And how very well everyone ate.

Now I have my own kitchen and my own small family of three. Bombarded by waves of adamant and often hyperbolic information about food and nutrition, I have to keep my bearings by remembering a few simple things about a good kitchen, listed below in order of importance.

1) The food must taste good.

2) There must be plenty for everyone.

3) If it is made from simple, real food it will probably be good for you.

4) Gratitude is essential.

With those principles in mind I am stumbling my way to a good kitchen, sorting through the labyrinths of organic vs.local, supermarket vs. farmer's market, raw vs. processed and homemade vs. store-bought. I'm trying to keep (or perhaps obtain?) a sense of humor and some common sense. I'm hoping, simply, to have a kitchen where people like to eat.

That said, this blog is dedicated to Mom and Grandma Gladys.
Their kitchens are still the places where everyone wants to be.

4 comments:

  1. Your kitchen is where I want to be.

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  2. What an honor Honey,
    However, right now my kitchen is not where I want to be as I left it in shambles this morning because we were in a hurry to get to the Carey branding - now there is some good and plentiful food! Your brother did not see fit to tidy up after he ate so I suppose I'll head that direction.

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  3. I am salivating, and homesick! What I wouldn't give for a table full of Grandma's cinnamon rolls, Randy's coffee, and all of us...

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  4. Hello fellow blogger and foodie. Sarah McK and kids are frequent guests at my table and in our hearts. She recommended your blog. Come visit me too at http://frazzledmomparty.blogspot.com/ I would love a visit and/or comments. It's a little ADHD and topics vary depending on what's on my radar that day. But...there are recipes and a mish mash of "housey" stuff. Looking forward to watching your blog grow.

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